Let me make it clear more about Saying Something is Better versus Saying Nothing.

That’s my single most important thing, most elementary, foundational, MUST-DO thing.

The grief, and the fact that your friend is now living without an actual part of her heart if you don’t read or remember anything else in this post, remember this: please, please, please acknowledge the loss.

Needless to say we may cry whenever you take it up in the supermarket. But needless to say i really want you to acknowledge just exactly what Sheryl Sandberg calls “the elephant into the room” – within my instance, the fact my child has died. It really is profoundly painful to create talk that is small the weather when my whole world has dropped aside. Please acknowledge this discomfort.

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